One thing normies will fail to understand: inherit worth matters.
They may have gone through exactly the same moves, but their inherit worth allowed them to succeed and progress further. They will naturally assume you are not doing something correctly rather than admit that you are lesser being, despite sensing this unconsciously.
It is just too out of line of egalitarian religion demanding to label completely different species as mere variations of the same species to avoid recognizing the inherit distinction in worth.
No matter how misshaped and misformed organism struggles, it would be recognized as such by it's peers as such and never allowed in their midst, much less to perpetuate itself.
For one in that position it remains only to recognize the futility of own actions and entire existence, as a dead-end gamble taken by life. Such avenues are the source of greatness, sure, but only in the miniscule percentage of attempts that are successful, while the remainder is discarded as the misshapen chaff it is. Be content with your lot of a gamble for greatness taken, but lost.