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Onion may have brief downtime on the 22nd

Regarding recent events: >>>/meta/4978 


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What is allowed on this board? What is its purpose?

On this board you can discuss and request or give advice regarding the Hikikomori  lifestyle anxieties and social or mental issues arising from these conditions of living  and also post general hikikomori discussion If you're content with being a hikikomori  that's ok, and you won't get in trouble for saying so.

Make Sure to read the rules before posting.

https://zzzchan.xyz/hikki/custompage/rules.html

WHAT  Does HIKIKOMORI MEAN?

The term Hikikomori ひきこもり or 引きこもり is a Japanese word that when translated into English it means  “pulling inward, being confined”,acute social withdrawal “)  in context of a person the term refers to a shut-in who stays home and does not leave their room for very long periods  usually   for about 6 months or more.

WHAT IS A HIKIKOMORI?

Hikikomori is a social condition in which the affected individual isolates themselves away from society at home in their parents house in their room for a period exceeding six months  . The Ministry of Health, Labour, and Welfare of Japan defines hikikomori as a condition in which the affected individuals refuse to leave their parents' house, and isolate themselves away from society and their family in their bedrooms  for a period exceeding six months but is not directly caused by  a physical condition or other psychological   problem.
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meta thread for discussing board rules and changes. feel free to post complaints about rules and changes you want to see to them.
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>> Why, why, proofs!
Fuck went, pissed fagot!
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>>960
Who are you replying to?  What does your post even mean?
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>>770
Update: I did not do this.
Hey BOfag, is a battlestation/room thread ok? Or is it a strictly japanese thing to make it nice?

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If you want to make banners for the board feel free to post them here
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>>732
I guess I just liked the fact somebody acknowledged my ICO related post, albeit two years later.
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>>733
I keep seeing this whenever I load up this board, and want to join the ICO talk, but can't really think of anything to say...
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test
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>>959
Start yourself.
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One thing normies will fail to understand: inherit worth matters.

They may have gone through exactly the same moves, but their inherit worth allowed them to succeed and progress further. They will naturally assume you are not doing something correctly rather than admit that you are lesser being, despite sensing this unconsciously. 

It is just too out of line of egalitarian religion demanding to label completely different species as mere variations of the same species to avoid recognizing the inherit distinction in worth. 

No matter how misshaped and misformed organism struggles, it would be recognized as such by it's peers as such and never allowed in their midst, much less to perpetuate itself.

For one in that position it remains only to recognize the futility of own actions and entire existence, as a dead-end gamble taken by life. Such avenues are the source of greatness, sure, but only in the miniscule percentage of attempts that are successful, while the remainder is discarded as the misshapen chaff it is. Be content with your lot of a gamble for greatness taken, but lost.
it depends, 'inherent worth' has many meanings, value as a blank slate? resourcefulness? practical value?
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>>1020
Literally, the worth inherited. A combination of genetic and upbringing factors that form a baseline of mental, social and physical capacities that are always being judged. Deviation is possible, but with disproportionate effort and limited results. Requirements further increase and returns further diminish with age. Furthermore, initial lacking can hardly be concealed: developed deviation from own baseline would be second-rate to the natural baseline difference, source of insecurity and behavioral anomalies that can be detected.  

A lacking organism and well-adjusted organism may be going through the same motions, but difference in performance, perception and reactions would always remain apparent.
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>>1024
yes, normies can be very blind to things like this as they tend to live on autopilot, but personaly i dislike talking about this, behavior and value being such volatile phenomena, "justifying" things on it sounds whiny, as anything can justified on determinism if one plays enough mental gymnastics with the scope, but i may be coping
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>>1026
While it is not about determinism, whether future is pre-defined or not is irrelevant. There is no subjective difference between making a choice and being convinced you're making a choice, so this is a non-factor in making choices.

It is about recognizing own limitations, accepting that some areas of your personal development are simply not worthfile beyond absolute minimum necessary. It's like joining some MMO server with no knowledge of mechanics or character progression where everyone have been grinding and learning tricks for 20-30 years, except with, for example, social development, finding some equal-level peers would be even less likely as there is no twink characters. Trying to compete with hardened veterans as equals, contrary to some of those veterans' opinion, is a losing proposition, it's nearly impossible to overtake literal decades of advantage, but learning absolute minimum to fend them off and escape from direct confrontations is doable.

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Share your daily routine anons 

I'm a little bit more productive these days and feeling good on the emotional and mental side, so I been waking up early in the morning and adjusting to my new plans for the remaining 6 months of this year.
>wake up at 5-7 am 
>use face cleanser and wash teeth, make a hot cup of green tea
>planning my food for the day as I been doing OMAD for half a month now, seeing as it's easier to manage the meal and get my daily needed calories and proteins, instead of having to eat 3+ times a day
>go online, lurk shitchan /fit/ and watch some YT videos of the people I'm subbed to
>watch a movie 
>5 PM. sit down to eat my daily meal
>7-8 PM. Meditate and do some relaxing techniques to chill down before heading to bed
>sleep at 9 PM max. 
I've been thinking about adding a one hour working-out plan to my routine but I'm still kind of lazy and ain't able to go through with it, but it's getting better or at least I'm hoping it gets better and I actually manage to add an exercise plan to my day. 
Also I live in a very negative environment inside my parents house and it's been drastically affecting my mental health far more than what isolation does to me and I'm really sick of it bu
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>>136 (OP) 
picrelated is approximately me in my room
>wake whenever i usually have nice dreams and i always hate when they end
>do fuck all until i get tired, lurking imageboards is most of it, if i have energy i consume popular media i torrented
>maybe have one meal during the day but usually none at all
>fall asleep whenever i try to sleep as much as possible because i don't want to be conscious
i can't wait until god sends to anime world afterlife where im happy
>wake up 6-11am
>drink coffee or green tea
>often times smoke weed
>???
>wake up
>listen to cute anime girl music
>read the few new posts on a few slow imageboards
>make a few posts, get b& a few times, ban evade a few times
>piss, cum and shit
>eat and drink
>watch anime
>go to sleep when tired
fuck God and fuck any faggot that worships him
>wake up @ random hour
>spend 2-5h fantasizing in bed
>do chores if theyre very piled up
>eat whatever is about to expire
>browse porn & youtube, pretending im self improving
>maybe shower if it doesnt get in the way of others schedules
>maybe workout if i showered recently
>checkup on everyone a couple times a day to humor them so i dont get kicked out
>go to sleep after being awake 6-40h
>>136 (OP) 
>Wake up
>Dread
>Despair
>Lament over my own Damnation
>Go to bed

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well /hikki/, what is the best and worst incarnation of nhk? the light novel will always be better then both the anime and manga to me and the anime is worse then the manga.
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>>964
I really like NHK as a piece of literature for that same reason, it doesn't need to be a self-help book, give you a lesson or something like that. Just tell a story, then you could interpret it how you want.
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There's a Buffalo '66 reference in each version.
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/hkgenneral/ - thread for general discussion here.

>in before this become the final new thread that is not a staff announcement.
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>>921
i can relate with the "keeping a safe distance is key to making it last".
i have trouble making any friendship last, i think i shild myself of emotions and eventually i get distant of genuinely nice people sometimes. my only lasting "buddy" is a guy that i know from 2013 at the church.
i think it only lasted that long because we barely interact, we stay months or years without seeing each other (last time i saw him was 2021).
i took my time to notice that behaviour in my psyche, i think it was caused by how my mom raised me.
we need a Hitler figure to whip us into shape
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>>992
No Hitler can outhitler the Hitler within our hearts, Brüder...
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>>1003
least based zzzchanner
>>989
This.

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hi /hikki/ how are we all doing today...

went out for the first time this week... to be with my lovely friend... now we have played song of saya together... how lovely...
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hey there, 
i'm also about to meet an old friend next month, he contacted me some months ago. it has been preety bad for me lately, i've been stuck in my home for months now.
maybe in the next weeks i will go back to look for a job, it has been an excruciating task.
>>1006 (OP) 
>VN
>together
Either you are the luckiest motherfucker ever or just gay.
one of the worst vns ever, couldnt finish it
>story about to get good
>shitty immersion destroying sex scene with an essays worth of text
>new thing commences
>repeat

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Went outside today for the first time in 2 weeks because I was craving chocolate. It's never as bad as I think it will be.
How long have you been a hikki for?
In a row or in total? Because I have been on and off the lifestyle since I finished my education. A few months working and having to keep a semblance of sociability while at it, then quitting and locking myself up for a couple of years. I go back to my parents' sometimes. They used to try to fix me, get me out, go do something, but I think they have accepted I'm hopeless by now. I'm living with them again and we barely talk. I have never been much to talk, but at least they used to try. They don't even bother anymore, not even to complain about my dead weight or try to lecture me about my future.
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>>968
I remember the days of dysfunctional, unpleasant and impotent concern too. I agree with the notion that it may still be better than quiet acceptance. I'm sure your parents are just too busy with worrying about extremely important things like politics, news and social media to worry about trivialities like the continuation of their bloodline.
>>968
I almost miss the attempts

halooooooo
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wait you are a bot right
okay I read it sir
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Where did you come from?
niggers
>>978
First time huh, i remember my first

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