Friends, my cousin is going to marry a single mother with two kids. He's already been with her for a while (the wires didn't really cross last time I saw him more than two years ago and my mom had to explain it to me recently) so I don't know if he can just cut ties with her now. My extended family has a lot of difficulty staying in touch with each other very well and my cousin and I have never talked to each other for longer than a short conversation so I don't know how to approach him about this without sounding like a crazy person. I know that he dug his own hole but he's my family and I need to support him any way that I can.
What do /b/?
You can't cure beta simp cucks without sending them to a battlefield or something.
But what if she's a good girl? :^)
>my cousin and I have never talked to each other for longer than a short conversation so I don't know how to approach him about this without sounding like a crazy person
Do it anyway if he listens good, if he doesn't you tried and it's his fault for listening.
*for not listening
>but he's my family and I need to support him any way that I can.
While it's commendable that you give weight to blood relations, your cousin obviously doesn't. Therefore you need to cut your ties with him.
Ask him why did the man who impregnate that woman leave her? Chances are it wasn't because he was an asshole, it's because he's a crazy dumb bitch. If he denies this logic then explain to him that she's using him as a dumb provider and doesn't love him. She lost her main source of stability & income and now searches for some retard who will provide for her at her age (I'm assuming she's 30+). She finally found the beta provider she was looking for and she's going to make his life hell. Her children will never love him and neither will she.
I'll also assume that your cousin makes more money than the average person. Make sure to emphasise this to him. If he was a guy struggling to make $800/mo she wouldn't even glance at him.
If your cousin still refuses to listen or even has the audacity to get angry, then fuck him. Let him jump straight into the grave he's dug for himself. 5 years down the line he's going to call you in the middle of the night and crying that you were absolutely right and should have listened.
You don't, stop trying to inject your moralist ego into everything. Lesson will be learned from this. Think about all the other people who will be aware of when he kills himself.
But I don't want him to kill himself.
>my cousin and I have never talked to each other for longer than a short conversation
No you don't, stop lying to yourself. The only person you should be helping is yourself, you seem like a massive bag of ego.
Is he christian?
A massive bag of ego? Ego is all there is. Everything else is a lie. If the man gets his jollies from being a nosy family busy-body, so be it. If he can assist or ensure the procreation of his cousins that's only somewhat less useful, evolutionarily speaking, as procreating himself.
While it can be and almost always is cucked to date or marry a single mother, there are instances where it isn't that egregious. This is a problem you deal with as soon as it arises, and not by the point where the guy has already proposed and plans to get married.
At most you could question him about it and ask him if he has any concerns about being with a single mother. As >>5861 says going around lecturing people and desperately trying to convince a man about to marry a woman that he's actually super "cucked" and "cringe" for doing it is likely going to fall on deaf ears. You aren't going to give him some magically information he doesn't already have that's suddenly going to change his mind if he's already been with her for years. He's clearly established for himself that he's comfortable with the compromise.
As long as it's not marring a coal burner with mutt kids. Or a rabid bitch that just wants ur money then it's okay if you start having kids with her.
>My extended family has a lot of difficulty staying in touch with each other very well
Same here, and that's alot of families now.
I am pregnant with another man's poop. What should I do?
Find a lovely adoptive father that will take care of the poop baby